The Unwritten Rule Of Touring Open Houses

While an open house may feel relaxed on the surface, there’s a lot of thoughtful planning behind it to create that "got to have this house" experience.  With that in mind, the best way to tour a home is to imagine you’re the homeowner for the day. How would you want guests to move through your space? That perspective naturally sets the tone. Take your time, but be intentional. Opening every drawer or cabinet usually isn’t necessary unless storage is a key part of your decision. A quick hello to the hosting agent is always appreciated, and if you’re already working with an agent, sharing that upfront keeps everything professional and straightforward.

Privacy is another important piece at any price point. Always ask before taking photos, recording video, or jumping on a FaceTime call. Many sellers value discretion just as much as presentation. And while it’s tempting to talk through pricing opinions or renovation ideas in real time, it’s best to save those conversations for later. Open houses are for observing, feeling the flow of the home, and gathering information, not negotiating.

One more thing that often comes up: dogs. We love them, but open houses and dogs don’t always mix. Unless the listing clearly states it’s pet friendly, it’s best to leave your four-legged friends at home. Even the most well behaved dog can be a distraction, and sellers often make arrangements to remove their own pets so the home shows at its best.

At the end of the day, open houses should feel welcoming and informative, and a little awareness goes a long way. When buyers tour thoughtfully, sellers feel respected, homes show the way they’re meant to, and everyone gets a better experience. If you’re out and have questions along the way, we're always here to help guide you through it!